How it works
Private Vent
Say it all here first. Only you see this.
Bridge Message
Same feelings, in words your partner can hear.
Repair Talk
Ten minutes. One speaks, one listens.
One small agreement
Not a fix for everything. Just the next step.
Private
Your partner never sees what you write
Your private words stay private. Only the message you approve is shared, and your partner only sees it after sharing their own side. Private writing is deleted after 30 days by default.
It doesn't take sides
Oseya never decides who is right. It hears both of you and looks for what you have in common. Not you vs me. Us vs the problem.
A communication tool, not therapy
Oseya helps with everyday fights: dishes, money, plans, family. It is not therapy and not for relationships where anyone feels unsafe.
Read moreQuestions
Does my partner need to download the app?
No. They can share their side from the link you send, right in their phone's browser. The app is there if you both want the guided talk and reminders.
Will my partner see what I wrote?
Never. They only see the calm message you approve, and only after they have shared their own side.
Who is right?
We don't decide that. We help each of you say what you need in a way the other can hear.
Is this therapy?
No. It is a communication tool for everyday conflict. If you are going through something serious, a licensed professional can help.
What if I don't feel safe?
If what you write suggests you may not be safe, we stop, share nothing with your partner, and show free, confidential support options.
How much does it cost?
Your first repair is free. One subscription covers both of you.
From fight to us again.